Monday, August 24, 2015

下雨的夜晚里……

在这下着雨的夜晚里, 显得更多愁善感。

昨天本该开心地玩。 毕竟, 朋友过来看我。 可是, 早上收到了一封简讯 —— 是个坏消息。 我想昨天大概也是大家同事间都一起在按手机的时候吧?! 虽然我已经离开了那家公司, 但是这个消息实在让我惊讶! 我其实是有迟疑了一下……

两个多月了吧? 我已经离开了那家公司两个多月了。 可是, 听到一个自己那么熟悉的名字, 传来了突然的死讯, 还是很深感悲哀与可惜。

刚刚结婚不久的一对夫妇; 老婆刚不久前换工; 认识了他老婆三年……  相信她现在是崩溃的吧?

人生啊人生! 有时候, 就是那么难于预料。 这一秒里会有什么变化, 谁都不会知道。 眼看快要到家了……结果, 就差那么一点点却回不去了!

不知怎么地就是心里感到不舒服。 总觉得还不能接受这个消息。 虽然不是自己的家人, 但是还是替他家人感到可悲。

因此, 人, 要时常记得注意安全。 千万不要疏忽了……

Thursday, August 20, 2015

冷静的时候……

人, 总需要冷静下来的时候。

其实, 矛盾的心情总是会有的。只是偶尔还是会停下来想想, 究竟现在的心情是什么…… 现在的这一切是自己要的吗? 这种状况有在预料之中吗? 还有很多很多问题想问问自己的内心。 在这种近况下, 身心会觉得疲惫; 心灵, 感到失落。

孤单是每个人都不想要的吧?! 虽然如此, 但是世界那么大, 何来的孤单呢? 生活是自己的。 要怎么过, 取决与自己的心态。 过得开心, 也是一天; 过得伤心,也是一天; 过得繁忙, 也总比无所事事来得好吧?

来了这里之后呢, 生活变得更加的安静了。 虽然每个周末都会尽量的出门找寻自由与快乐, 但是还是觉得缺少了什么。 人, 总会不懂得满足吧! 有了这个, 还要那个。 永远都不会达到目标。 不过, 也正因为如此生活才来得有趣吗? 偶尔要这个, 偶尔做那个的……

如今, 并没有以往的开心吧! 可是, 在不同的方向来看的话, 也未尝不是什么不好的事。 最起码, 我看清了很多事, 了解了一些意想不到的人事物。

说到意想不到, 我还真的意想不到会有一种男人像女人般耍伎俩。 他真的是让我大开眼界了。 人生中, 能遇到这么一种人, 也算我即幸运又倒霉了。 接下来, 还会有什么事情会发生也不知道啊! 毕竟, 路还长呢!

无论如何, 勇敢地面对一切的困难, 绝对不可以被那种烂人给再次打败了。

P.s. 有人告诉我, 我的前任上司突然想念起我来了。

我是应该开心还是愤怒呢? 我真的不知道要用什么表情啦形容好了。

为什么我在左右时, 就是不愿意多为我着想呢? 如今, 我不在此处了, 才开始假惺惺地问候呢? 最可恶的是向他人问候我。 难道连一封简讯都那么难传送吗?

我是气……气我自己的付出与牺牲是白费地。 至今, 还是一片空白。

今天的我, 学会了不再那么傻了。 做好本分就是了。 只要不昧着良心, 什么都行, 也不要那么地把事情扛上身免得自己再次受罪。 那种感觉, 人生经历过一次就够了。 千万不要再有! 我觉得自己不能再次被如此的事情困扰了。 实在是无法再承受!

人生就不能再简单, 再快乐一些吗?

Sunday, August 16, 2015

Belief in life...

I have no offence but just merely some of my thoughts in life. Well, everyone will have their own thoughts and beliefs. Thus, we cannot say who is right and who is wrong. Basically, it's just some different thoughts that one might have.

Honestly, I would not say that one's belief is of no reason. However, I feel that being a strong believer in ourselves is much better. Well, we know ourselves better than anyone else could be. It's the inner strength that we have got in order to guide us and lighten up the routes in life. I guess that is why there are lots of motivational activities and quotes in life.

Motivational quotes and activities in life are good. It helps us to remind of who we are, what are we doing and facing, where are we moving towards, and etc. I don't find it to be of no purpose. The guidance and enlighten of one self is actually quite important. One has to be really of upright spirit in order to get ourselves to be in the right position in life.

There are moments where one get lost of themselves. Nevertheless, that is not the end of it. All we have got to do is to get out of there and be passionate in life. We have to learn to stand up and move on to everything that might be coming to us, instead of, just sit back and do nothing on every failure we face.

We must not always blame others on the failure and circumstances that we faced, but to be thankful to every situation that we are put into it. Why?! You must be questioning yourself. It is simply because we need to accept the challenge we have got. Every challenge make us grow. That is what life is.

Therefore, be brave in life and accept what that is meant for us to face. Time will make all these into a past one day, sometimes in the future. At the mean time, just carry on and think of a solution instead of running away of it.